I have a craptastic relationship with my sis. I’m not going to bore you with the BS of the dramas, so suffice it to say….there is no there THERE.
And here’s why: because I had the wisdom (at the age of 38 or so) to see that I had done all I could do and run out of hope. I could no longer let her drain me.
It’s RIP. A version of it, anyway. My brain needs to Rest In Peace over my relationship with her.
Why am I writing this?
When you find yourself happier with out someone, than with someone….and you know you’ve tried everything within your ability and awareness…you have to let that relationship RIP. You have to accept that it is what it is, find the lesson, love yourself and go live your best life.
As they say in golf…..as long as you’re moving forward….you’re in good shape.