If Evolution Works….

how come mothers only have two hands? ~ Mr. Milton Berle.


  • I’m not responsible for your feelings

    When Jackie goes to TJ and says ‘’I feel as though you don’t want to see me or have anything to do with me’’ and the reply is ‘ don’t over think it’. Followed up with a week of being too busy, lies about plans, and dismissive, heartless comments. The proof is all there. She… Continue reading

  • Let’s Talk About Sex. Baby

    So I’m going thinking about dynamics and what kills sex between people. Stick with me while I lay my thought process out. The best of times: We’re individuals with our own very unique desires, turn ons, experiences. You meet someone and there’s a perfect synergy. Yin Yang energy. There’s also respect. A respect for your… Continue reading

  • Hearing vs Listening

    I’ve always felt like a relationship works best when people are heard. Not listened to….but really heard. What happens when you’re heard is, the other person knows what to give you. What you need. You are connected. Everything good comes from feeling heard and understood. When it’s mutual between two people, it’s magical. Being listened… Continue reading

  • Naked

    So if I strip away everything and get to the center of things….. Who am I? What’s underneath it all? Under the baggage, the unhappiness, the victimy stuff, the pride? Continue reading