Here’s a question for you: If you could give your younger self advice using just three words, what would they be? I thought about the people things said to me along my life. The actions I made okay and words I let affect me. The experiences and feelings that sit with me now. Being someone’s… Continue reading

My hair has been a train wreck. Rainbow shades of brown, brass and pumpkin in trying to let myself gradually go grey. The styling of it, a non style that never does much. This all coming from someone whose hair was one of the features I liked best about myself I’d stayed with this stylist,… Continue reading

A lightening flash went off for me when I saw this video: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRKB7rhD/ What it made me see: For me. When there is no apology or acknowledgement for a hurt or wrong, it’s equal to sweeping things under the rug. A lot of dirt can pile up under that rug. Dirt piled up with nowhere… Continue reading

I am pretty hot looking for a (almost) 60 year old I am smart I am (going to be) a loving soul I am passionate I am sensual I am a good friend I am (going to be a better) mom and wife I am kind I am these things and more. Continue reading

Jackie loves thunder and lightening. At night. It’s the best. She sleeps like a baby Maybe it’s the feeling of being away at summer camp again? She knows this: she’s been thinking about her childhood a lot. Random memories keep popping up. Some good, some sad. And she guesses it’s from all that inner child… Continue reading

1. Invalidation on my feelings. 2. Criticism on my appearance or looks 3. Control freaks 4. Liars 5. Rejection Continue reading